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LESSON 01

introduction to Only7seconds

OBJECTIVE: Introduce Only7Seconds and the Connection Curriculum by focusing on Circles of Connection

KEY TAKEAWAY: Circles of Connection can help us see our relationships and take action to change them based on what we need.

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student journal

facilitator guide

PREP checklist:

  • Student journals
  • Circle poster
  • Wristbands
  • Introduction Video & Slides
  • UCLA Loneliness Survey
  • Letter to parents

the circles of connection

this lesson's focus:

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Self

LESSON 02

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Reflect and engage on personal stories to set the foundation to build better connections

KEY TAKEAWAY: Reflecting on what we need and who we are helps us build connections with others


LESSON 03

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET SAMMY VASQUEZ: "Coming from a Mexican-American family of ten, Samael shares how he's experienced loneliness as a high school student while embracing a society that is not tied to his culture of origin. He's realized his story is just beginning and he's determined to write a good one."

STORY THEMES: Discovering your own story, friendships
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

this lesson's focus:

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student journal

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Family & Friends

LESSON 04

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Reflect and engage on personal stories to set the foundation to build better connections

KEY TAKEAWAY: Reflecting on what we need and who we are helps us build connections with others


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LESSON 05

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Identify patterns of behavior that impact connections

KEY TAKEAWAY: How we show up impacts how we are treated in our relationships


this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 06

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET KELLY LEMON: A near fatal car accident changed everything for 12 year old Kelly. After losing the use of her right arm, Kelly’s story shares how she’s continued to push through the impossible in order to pursue her dreams as a one-armed photographer and business woman.

STORY THEMES: Bullying, physical disabilities, the power of community
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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All contacts

LESSON 07

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Consider how a role model can impact connection
  
KEY TAKEAWAY: Sharing what you admire about someone can create a strong connection

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LESSON 08

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Manage emotions to bring other people closer

KEY TAKEAWAY: Knowing my values and how they tie to my emotions helps me to move through them more easily

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 09

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET KEVIN BERTHIA: With over 20 suicide attempts, Kevin is no stranger to the pain of mental health illness. Now as an example that depression recovery is possible for everyone, he wants everyone to know the value they bring to the world.

STORY THEMES: Mental health struggles, suicide, emotional literacy
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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Neighbors & School Contacts

LESSON 10

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Connect with others based on common interests and activities.

KEY TAKEAWAY: Connecting with others with common interests builds community.

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LESSON 11

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Identifying what we need in relationships to form better connections.

KEY TAKEAWAY: Create specifics about what we want and can give in our relationships.

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 12

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET Apuroopa Kavikondala: "As an ambitious high school student, Apuroopa is a 4x self-published author and mental health advocate. She shares her story to encourage others to advocate for themselves and use their influence for the greater good."

STORY THEMES: Mental health struggles, suicide, emotional literacy
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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Acquaintances

LESSON 13

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Participate in acts of kindness to connect with community

KEY TAKEAWAY: Intentional kindness leads to creating connection.

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LESSON 14

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Expand knowledge about what they and others need to be in healthy relationships

KEY TAKEAWAY: Knowing ourselves well helps build connection.

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 15

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET CHRIS CRUZ: Coming from a childhood of adversity, Chris shares how he began striving for success by pursuing money, position, and relationships. But it was only when he gained understanding for the value of his story that he feels he was able to truly find success.

STORY THEMES: Loneliness, adverse childhood, success, single parent household, mindset, resilience
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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All Circles

LESSON 16

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Ask questions to build understanding and connection

KEY TAKEAWAY: Asking questions and listening to people builds connection.

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LESSON 17

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Demonstrate how relationships change over time

KEY TAKEAWAY: Develop a way to identify changing needs in relationships

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 18

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET MIKE ELVASKY: In his 100 years of life, Mike has a wealth of wisdom to share. Whether it was his time serving in World War II, his years as a farmer, or his career as an educator, Mike shares that generosity, friendship, and connection is what makes life rich.

STORY THEMES: Loneliness, war/veteran, friendship, generosity, grief/loss
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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Acquaintances

LESSON 19

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Connect with others to create a group response to a question

KEY TAKEAWAY: Sharing ideas encourages others to engage on a topic

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LESSON 20

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Asking for help is a normal part of relationships

KEY TAKEAWAY: Creating a plan for asking for help makes it easier in the long run

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 21

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET LORIE LEDOUX: When her story took a different direction than she expected, Lorie found herself alone at the darkest point in her life. A friend reaching out during a moment of crisis ended up changing the trajectory for her. Her hope is that her story will give others hope that there is light even when you can’t see it.

STORY THEMES: Loneliness, suicide, depression, divorce, military, being the strong friend
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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All Circles

LESSON 22

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Build community through a shared activity

KEY TAKEAWAY: Enhance connections by learning new things about the people you see every day

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LESSON 23

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Develop a plan to bring someone into a closer relationship

KEY TAKEAWAY: Building closer connections takes intentional planning

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 24

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET TYLER BJORK: "Understanding the deep hurt that comes from bullying and feeling unseen, Tyler shares his story of loneliness. His story explains how where we feel seen, where we feel accepted and where we feel belonging are often the places we can be the most authentic.”

STORY THEMES: Loneliness, bullying, LGBTQIA+, feeling unseen, finding belonging, serving others
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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Family & Friends

LESSON 25

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Build community through a shared activity

KEY TAKEAWAY: Enhance connections by learning new things about the people you see every day

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LESSON 26

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Develop a plan to bring someone into a closer relationship

KEY TAKEAWAY: Building closer connections takes intentional planning

this lesson's focus:

Self

LESSON 27

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EMPATHY LESSON

MEET ABBI HAMLIN: "As a young athlete, Abbi struggled with a severe eating disorder. As she shares her story, she hopes to shed a light on the loneliness of eating disorders and remind others that there is hope and healing even when things feel dark."

STORY THEMES: Loneliness, disordered eating (anorexia), athlete mental health, friendship, hope, therapy, physical health & nutrition
KEY TAKEAWAY: Engaging with other people’s stories builds empathy

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Closet Contacts

LESSON 28

connection challenge

OBJECTIVE: Connect with people in closest circles

KEY TAKEAWAY: Sharing why people matter in our lives helps us and them to feel more connected

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LESSON 29

personal connections

OBJECTIVE: Reflecting and setting plans for connection make relationships more meaningful

KEY TAKEAWAY: Taking an active role in our relationships is helpful

this lesson's focus:

Self

the circles of connection

LESSON 30

final lesson

OBJECTIVE: Complete loneliness survey and provide feedback to Only7Seconds

KEY TAKEAWAY: Relationship and communication skills built overtime can improve connection while lowering feelings of loneliness.

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